Chapter
7 -
Character Qualities God Promotes

One reason we want to be loyal to God is because He rewards loyalty with
greater responsibility. In fact, there are several character qualities that
are especially important to God. Loyalty is just one of them. When God finds
a vessel that is walking before Him in integrity, He promotes that servant
to places of nobler responsibility and deeper servanthood.
Serve a little bit, He’ll give you greater ways to serve. Handle properly
what He’s given you and He’ll give you more. “‘For to everyone who has, more
will be given, and he will have abundance’”(Matthew 25:29).
When God considers which vessels might be entrusted with greater spheres of
servanthood, He does not look for sincerity, or for passion or giftedness or
education. He looks rather for character. The great issue before God is
whether the vessel has evidenced growth of character. Is this person
becoming more like Jesus? Is this person increasingly manifesting the
character qualities of Christ? When the answer is yes, God will take that
person to the next level of testing and inner development.
By looking at Psalm 101, we can discover the character qualities God is
looking for.
A Psalm About Leadership Criteria
In this Psalm, David will itemize the qualities he looks for in choosing
leaders.
Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, him I will destroy; the one who has
a haughty look and a proud heart, him I will not endure. My eyes shall be on
the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me; he who walks in a
perfect way, he shall serve me. He who works deceit shall not dwell within
my house; he who tells lies shall not continue in my presence (Psalm
101:5-7).
David is speaking of those he invites into his presence, or into his
home—that is, into his inner circle of leadership. David is basically
saying, “These are the character qualities I look for as I build my
leadership team. When I need to appoint someone to a place of service, let
me tell you the kind of person I’m looking for.”
Someone might ask, “Isn’t it sort of strange to write a worship song about
criteria for choosing leaders?” True, it’s not the kind of lyrical prose
you’d expect to find in today’s worship songs. Keep in mind, though, that
the songs of that day were used as one of the primary methods for teaching
children and adults the truths of the covenant. They didn’t have books and
textbooks as we have today, so most instruction was conveyed orally through
poetry, songs, and rote memorization. David felt strongly enough about
leadership qualifications that he wanted these themes to be remembered
throughout the generations.
David’s
Top Five Leadership Criteria
I see at least five character qualities David valued in the lives of those
on his leadership team: Loyalty, humility, faithfulness, uprightness, and
truthfulness. Let’s look at them individually.
Loyalty
“Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, him I will destroy” (verse 5a).
While David doesn’t use the word “loyalty” here, he talks the language of
loyalty. The one who slanders his neighbor is one who is not loyal in his
earthly relationships. The loyal friend does not stoop to slander. Rather,
he does all in his power to promote the good reputation of his friend. David
begins his list by saying he will not tolerate the overt disloyalty of
slander among his leaders.
In raising issues of loyalty first, it’s obvious that it was a very
important quality to David. His own experiences had taught him the value of
loyalty. While serving under Saul, he had learned that it wasn’t enough to
be a giant killer and the theme of maidens’ songs. Even though he had given
his strength for the sake of the people and had been a mighty deliverer for
them, they had still plotted together with Saul against his life.
No, strength and ability were not enough. Above all, David wanted loyalty on
his leadership team.
Humility
“The one who has a haughty look and a proud heart, him I will not endure”
(verse 5b).
David was hesitant to bring into leadership positions those who carried
themselves in a way that conveyed a haughty attitude.
God also has the practice of promoting humility. Scripture says, “‘God
resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.’ Therefore humble
yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time”
(1 Peter 5:5-6). When we embrace humility, we qualify to be exalted “in due
time.” Humble people have ownership of Christ’s words, “Without Me you can
do nothing.” They realize that no matter how strong their giftings and
talents, all their labors are of no effect if God isn’t building the house.
If you’re a leader, develop a nose for humility. Notice when it’s a
bsent, and
notice when it’s present. When you see arrogance in one of the servants,
don’t shrug it off as an insignificant thing. Pride should never be
promoted. When you’ve discerned a member of your team who is truly humble,
you have found a vessel that is safe to promote to higher responsibilities.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that promotion will help the vessel to
learn humility. Make sure the humility is there first. If God waits to see
humility before promoting someone, then we should too.
Faithfulness
“My eyes shall be on the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me”
(verse 6a).
David was on the lookout for faithfulness, and wise leaders today will do
likewise. Is the person faithful to execute small details with diligence and
accuracy? Is she a woman of her word? Does he follow through to full
completion without having to be monitored? We don’t need people who think
they are God’s gift to humanity; we need people who will serve diligently
and faithfully.
God promotes faithfulness. When He sees a servant that is faithful and
diligent to fulfill all his responsibilities, God says to that faithful
servant, “‘You were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over
many things’” (Matthew 25:21). In other words, God promotes faithfulness to
higher levels of responsibility.
If God does that, leaders should also promote those who are most faithful on
the team. Don’t promote mere talent; promote faithfulness. Develop an eye
for faithfulness. When you see it, mark it. You’re probably looking at a
servant that will be promoted in time to an even greater servanthood.
Uprightness
“He who walks in a perfect way, he shall serve me” (verse 6b).
Here David is pointing to the character quality of godliness or
blamelessness. A man had to walk in a manner of life that was above reproach
in others’ eyes before David would bring him into his inner circle.
God feels the same way. He also promotes uprightness. God is holy and true
(Revelation 6:10), and when He sees people who are holy and true, He brings
them into the immediacy of His presence and promotes them to greater spheres
of service. Godliness is an essential qualification for leadership. Never
promote someone without it.
Truthfulness
“He who works deceit shall not dwell within my house; he who tells lies
shall not continue in my presence” (verse 7).
Honesty is an absolutely essential quality for leaders to demonstrate. No
lie is a small lie. David himself had done some lying in his history, but he
learned that it never secured God’s favor. Now, he wanted men of integrity
on his team—men who would speak the truth.
David wanted those who would serve him in his royal court to evidence these
five character qualities. One reason might be that David recognized these
were the kinds of character qualities that God Himself desired before His
throne. In Psalm 15, David wrote about the character of the person God
invites into His inner circle.
LORD, who may abide in Your tabernacle? Who may dwell in Your holy hill? He
who walks uprightly, and works righteousness, and speaks the truth in his
heart; he who does not backbite with his tongue, nor does evil to his
neighbor, nor does he take up a reproach against his friend (Psalm 15:1-3).
God Promotes Loyalty
Whom does God promote to the place of abiding in His presence? Psalm 15:3
says God brings into His immediate presence the man who does not “take up a
reproach against his friend.” That phrase is describing a loyal person. One
who is loyal to his friend will not be quick to pick up an accusation or
reproach against his friend because he knows him. The loyal spirit will say,
“No, that can’t be right. I know John. He doesn’t conduct himself that way.
John is my friend, and I know he would never intentionally do the kind of
thing you’re saying he has done.” A loyal person will not take up an offence
or reproach against his or her friend because loyalty puts more weight in
the integrity of the friend than in the credibility of the accusation. To
the loyal friend, the burden of proof is with the accuser. Unless the
accuser can present sufficiently compelling evidence, the reproach is
dismissed because of the relationship that loyalty has built. And even if
the accusation proves to be true, the true friend confronts and searches out
the truth in loyalty and love.
An important part of being a good friend is being loyal. David was asserting
that God promotes into His inner circle those who are loyal to their human
friends. The Lord seems to think that the one who is loyal to his friend on
earth will be loyal, in like manner, to his heavenly Friend.
God earmarks the loyal for promotion. “‘For the eyes of the LORD run to and
fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those
whose heart is loyal to Him’” (2 Chronicles 16:9). God is always searching
the world over for servants who are truly loyal to Him. When He finds that
kind of loving loyalty, He raises them up and shows Himself strong on their
behalf. The wise leader will take his cue from God’s leadership style and
will wait to promote someone until he sees enduring qualities like
faithfulness, humility, and loyalty in the life of that member.
Take a lesson from Korah. Korah wanted to be promoted by God to the place
that Aaron or Moses held over the people. But God would not promote Korah
because he was loyal only to himself. If Korah had been the leader, and God
had said to him, “Korah, step aside, I’m going to destroy the entire nation
of Israel, and raise up another nation through you,” Korah would have
accepted the offer. He would have said, “Here am I, Lord, Your faithful
servant; let it be done to me according to Your word.” But God didn’t need
that kind of a man as leader. He needed a loyal man like Moses who, when God
spoke of destroying the nation, would stand in the breach and turn away the
wrath of God.[1] The disloyal servant will never be the intercessor God
needs, so he will not be promoted by God.
Look for loyalty in those whom you promote to your primary levels of
leadership. You may not enjoy the luxury of having loyalty among all those
who serve in secondary or tertiary levels of leadership, but it is critical
that those in your inner core of leadership be loyal in love to you.
Others who don’t understand this leadership principle may find your
selection of primary leaders to be exclusive and smacking of favoritism. But
wise leaders have come to learn that we shouldn’t promote someone simply
because he or she has tenure and influence in the system. Tenure does not
guarantee loyalty. So a wise leader may choose to promote a loyal person
with less experience over someone who has institutional seniority but who
lacks a true heart of loyalty.
I’d like to close this chapter with a contemporary example of someone who
has been promoted because of loyalty, and Larry Hill comes to mind. A friend
showed me a letter he had received from Dr. Larry Hill, Executive Director
of Christ For The Nations Institute in Dallas, TX, inviting him to come
speak on their campus once again. Larry wrote to my friend, “The Guest
Speaker Committee, and the Lindsay family, would love for you to come back
to CFNI and minister to our students.” I was struck by how Larry referenced
“the Lindsay family” in his letter. Christ For The Nations was founded by
Gordon and Freda Lindsay, and is led today by Mom Lindsay and her son,
Dennis Lindsay. Larry was honoring their legacy and leadership in his
letter. Larry is a powerful minister of the gospel in his own right, and
would not need to follow in the shadow of the Lindsays in order to establish
his own ministry platform. But he is honoring of the fact that he stands in
a place of entrustment given to him by the Lindsays. Even a simple letter of
invitation was reflective of his personal loyalty to them. Because of that
loyalty, he is trusted to serve as the primary executive leader of one of
our nation’s most powerful Bible Schools. His loyalty has been rewarded with
a place of greater servanthood.
For Group Discussion
1. How important have you found the character qualities of Psalm 101:5-7 to
be, in choosing leaders?
2. Are there any other qualities you would add to that list of five?
3. Can you think of a time when you made the mistake of promoting someone
who hadn’t demonstrated loyalty? What were the results?
4. Do you agree with this statement about Korah—“The disloyal servant will
never be the intercessor God needs, so he will not be promoted by God”?
5. Discuss the statement, “Tenure does not guarantee loyalty,” and what it
means for your team.
[1] Psalm 106:23.